Networking Tips: How to Ask for (and Write) An Email Introduction

Receiving and asking for introductions is an integral part of professional development and networking -- especially for startups.

I ask for, and receive a lot of requests for, introductions. Whether it’s someone at a company looking for a partnership or job, an investor, a journalist, or someone else, it’s an integral part of professional development and networking.

At the same time, such requests often arise in the least efficient way possible for the middleman: in person, in the middle of another email exchange talking about the other party, or simply with no details at all.

Once I got involved in the startup scene as the founder and CEO of Fetchnotes, I found that many people within the startup ecosystem have email introductions down to an exact science. I’m sure similar rules apply to general networking, but inside in the start world there are a very specific set of expectations, which were a bit cryptic and counterintuitive to understand at first.

Hopefully these tips will help you maximize the success of your next introduction request.


Writing an Effective Introduction Email

First of all, no matter where the request for an introduction arises, always send a separate request email. That way, the receiving party can act on it directly — since most introductions are done over email.

Remember, you’re asking someone to spend their social capital on you, so your number one goal is make it as easy as possible. Here’s how:


Hey Alex,

Hope all is well! I saw you’re connected to Mark Zuckerberg (contact) on LinkedIn. I was hoping to connect with him about a partnership (reason), the details of which are below. Do you know him well enough to make an intro (this statement gives the middle-man a way out in case they don’t know each other well)?

Widget App is an awesome new app that lets you start a company with your friends, right on Facebook (this is what you do). We have 150K+ active users, and on average they’re starting 1,000 companies per day (credibility + traction). We’ve been integrating with OpenGraph already (shows you’ve done work already), but we think that we can make it a huge revenue driver for them if we get access to some of the data not available in their APIs, specifically the number of times a user looks at the profiles of their ex-girlfriends (basic benefits + needs outlined).

Let me know if you can make the connection. If not, no worries, I can reach out cold (shows them you have confidence that this is going to happen one way or another).

Networker McAwesome


When I receive an email like this, I forward it to my contact and ask, “Hey, these guys were looking to connect. Can I make an intro?” If my contact says yes, I make the connection. If not, I say I tried, but he doesn’t want to talk.

Unless you know someone really well, or know they are looking for such opportunities, you want to give them a chance to say no. Otherwise, they’ll feel obligated to take it and have bad feelings toward the person from Day 1. Not only is it just good etiquette to give them a choice, but it prevents the value of your introduction from being diluted.

Is it contrived? Obviously. Does the other party realize its contrived? Usually. And yet I write every email intro request in this exact format because it does three really, really important things:

  • Makes it easy for the middleman to make the introduction.
  • Gives the person you’re trying to get connected with a basic overview so they feel more comfortable taking a meeting.
  • Limits the amount of aggregate back-and-forth.

This formula makes the introduction more likely to happen, the person you’re trying to meet is more likely to take the meeting, and most of all, it is the most efficient use of everyone’s time.


Alex Schiff is the founder and chief executive officer of Fetchnotes, which makes productivity as simple as a tweet. Prior to Fetchnotes, Alex was the vice president of Benzinga and a student at the University of Michigan’s Ross School of Business. This post originally appeared on the author’s blog.


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